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WAT?! You're telling me there has been a team at Facebook designing and implementing this feature, and not one person has stood up and asked:

"Uhm, isn't that super creepy, even for us?"

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in reply to muesli

Is that real, or a joke? It's almost like that stunt Signal pulled with the ads they made to expose how much Facebook knows and uses about people. Maybe Facebook figured that the cat's out of the bag so they just run with it now.

Could also be part of a strategy to gradually make people think "it's actually good that Facebook knows everything about me, then Facebook can help me in so many nice ways like this".
in reply to muesli

Are you planning a Bank Job?
You said something in your post about taking the banks money (See our data policy).
Let your local Police force share your plans.
in reply to muesli

very interesting! Do you know the source of the screenshot?
in reply to muesli

You can't see if you have Dollar-Signs in your eyes. They hurt your view to usefull stuff. Also, i bet my used underwear everyone at Facebook is creepy by nature. why should they work there then?
in reply to muesli

nope. Looks totally on point for the likes of facebook.
in reply to muesli

@benoit That’s Facebook for you. I bet they knew this person was getting married before they even proposed/were proposed to.
in reply to Lord Alan of Chaol Ghleann

@benoit

Back then my spouse and I went to get rings, she posted a photo of just her left hand wearing an engagement ring, in lieu of an announcement. Facebook showed that post to absolutely everyone and her adverts all changed to wedding stuff. Either the comments or photo AI told them exactly what was happening.
in reply to Charles ☭ H

@benoit That’s one of the reasons to ditch apps where your data is their business.
in reply to muesli

It's what EVERYONE on Facebook signed up for, to be a captive audience. Who's ever heard of walking through a car showroom and being surprised when someone tries to sell them something?
in reply to muesli

To be fair they also advertised adult diapers to me, and when I told it to not show that one of the potential reasons to decline those ads was "Knows too much."
in reply to muesli

I bet this links to some funding system where they get a cut of whatever money is raised or it gives them more ad clicks.

No matter how cynical you think Facebook is, it's always more cynical than that.
in reply to muesli

Amazon Music recommends me "Coming out in the 2010s" playlists: don't know what gives them the impression I'm out to them 😕
in reply to muesli

Pretty sure that pointing stuff like that out is how you get fired from FB. Or at least marked as first one to be blamed if any kind of whistleblowing happens.
in reply to muesli

@aral this is nothing. Target recommended pregnancy related stuff to a woman before she knew she was pregnant. Big data FTW.
in reply to muesli

Facebook is very, very creepy and we've known that years. And for those that forget it, there are some scandals and investigations every year. So the real question is: what the f*** are people still doing on Facebook?

People aren't lemmings, right? I am the living prove that the world keeps turning once you leave Facebook, and that you can still lead a happy, fulfilling life without WhatsApp.
in reply to muesli

I think we have a kind of digital gap. But this time it's not about internet access or not. It's about volunteerly feeding greedy data-sucking companies or choosing liberty and privacy.
in reply to muesli

what the fuck is a honeymoon fund, and why does it exist?
in reply to muesli

Someone who stands up and says that gets fired, and then there's one less to do so for the next creepy feature. There've been so many creepy features that this process has reached its natural conclusion.
in reply to muesli

it would have been nice to receive some donations. Instead, I received ads for houses. I recently got married. But yes, social media has become less social and more spy/sell media.
in reply to muesli

People who use fb could not care less about privacy
in reply to muesli

Content warning: death

in reply to Nartagnan ⏚

Content warning: death

in reply to muesli

If it can prove FB just don't care.... And neither FB engineers.
Perhaps they like the technical prowess, and not only the money, but nothing about good for anybody. Sh*tty people doing sh*tty things.

(We are okay now, if this story can help anybody quitting, it's still that ^^)
in reply to muesli

oh no. not one bit. when I was planning for mine, I got this same message, then later ads for locations, flights etc
in reply to muesli

That is indeed very creepy 😳 Unfortunately, there's people who only takes those sort of things as something positive.